~Colossians 3:11
I'm going to make an addition to this list:
There is neither old or young in Christ.
There I said it. Are you a young person who believes he/she can only relate to other young people? Why? Is Christ alive in you? Does that older person (whether it be pastor, parent, or other) not also have the living Spirit of Christ in him/her? Are you an older person who feels that the younger generation are "un-relatable"? May I ask why? If God is the same yesterday, today, tomorrow, and forever, then you can probably share some his unchangeable attributes to us kids.
Let me tell you a story. It's a Bible story that you may or may not recall. The main character's name is Rehoboam. Sound familiar? He was the son of Solomon, the wisest man on earth.
Now there arose a situation during the beginning of his reign where Rehoboam didn't know what to do. So, naturally he looked to his counselors. First he goes to "the old men who had stood before Solomon his father while he was still alive." They give him their advice based on the wisdom that God has given to them through their years of experience. Now Rehoboam abandons their advice and turns to "the young men who had grown up with him and stood before him." Now these young gentlemen give him their advice based on their experience. Rehoboam listens to them, and the result: a kingdom lost. (Read the full story at 1 Kings 12).
Do you think this is an isolated incident? Read Judges 16, the story of Samson.
"But his father and mother said to him, "Is there not a woman among the daughters of your relatives, or among all our people that you must go to take a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?" But Samson said to his father, "Get her for me, for she is right in my eyes."
~Judges 16:3
Why did Samson not listen to the counsel of his parents? Because.... well just 'cause. He wanted it: he got it. The end result his wife was a snare to him and he lost her. Now both these stories were within God's providence and he used it for good, but these men's choices had affects on the rest their lives.
If you are on a mountain hike through dangerous and treacherous passes, would you want the advice of beginners like you? Or, those who already have tread the path? I think I would go to the crazy, experienced, old coots over those who have no idea what they're doing and are just pooling their ignorance. Why do we forsake the companionship of those who are experienced and have already trod the paths we are going through? And do not tell me they can't relate to you. They were once teenagers in the exact spot you were with the same temptations you faced. Go ask them what they did and what they would have done differently with their life.
I'm not just talking about old people talking and investing in young people. I'm also telling you young people, to go to the even younger people. We will most likely always have someone older that we can go to and ask for advice, and someone younger that we will pass wisdom down to. If you are a Christian, find other Christians to talk to about Christ and his saving redeeming work in your life.
It took me until this past year to figure out this. It started when I heard someone at a conference talking about churches having many separate ministries to relate to very specific people, because they thought they could only relate to that person if they had similar interests and/or where in the same stage of life. He was talking about how even if he had no way he could relate to another Christian, they still had this in common: Christ had saved both of them. Are you a sinner? So, am I. Let's talk about grace.
"For I decided to know nothing among you except Christ and him crucified."
~1 Corinthians 2:2
